Table of ContentsThe word they twistedWhat resilience really meansNo skilled player just stands thereEndurance is not the same as self-abandonmentA ward against the rigged fightStrong enough to leave Somewhere along the way, the word resilience got twisted into a weapon used against the very people who have the most of it. When I set limits … Continue reading What Resilience Really Means (It’s Not Tolerating Abuse)
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Restricting Access to You Is Not Weakness
They called you weak because they liked you unguardedRestricting access is not living in a bubbleWhat resilience actually isYour tired body is already under siegeThe people who mock the gate are why the gate existsCriticism is not the same as being huntedKeep the gate They will call it weakness because they preferred you unguarded. Recently … Continue reading Restricting Access to You Is Not Weakness
Gaming With Chronic Illness Is Its Own Difficulty Setting
The body is always part of the gameThe guilt of wanting to playWhen the healer needs healingChronically Ill Gamer BingoIt counts even when it looks smallFrom the Emberosis Armory Gaming with chronic illness is not just gaming with extra breaks. It is logging in with a body that may or may not cooperate. Hands that … Continue reading Gaming With Chronic Illness Is Its Own Difficulty Setting